Friday, 8 May 2015

Fab Food Friday #6

Welcome to the 6th instalment of Fab Food Friday #FFF!!
Last week the lovely Emma aka MrsShilts shared with us her amazing recipe for Slimming World friendly burger in a bowl.....OMG this looks amazing!! Anything recipe with the word burger in gets an automatic thumbs up from me!


The meal looks so inviting and with the melted cheese on top who can resist??


A big thanks to Emma for linking up with us this week, maybe we`ll see you this week??

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Slimming World #15

After last weeks muscle injury and the resulting no exercise I was certain that I would of gained this week. Probably 2-3lbs, so imagine my surprise when I stood on the scales to find I had gained only a half a pound!!




I am totally shocked as I must admit I have been comfort eating due to no exercise, and I have to say I have felt crap for eating some naughty food.

This week I`m back on it and after many times of saying this I WILL get my Club 10 award so I need to loose 1 1/2lbs to reach this target.

I have loads of events coming up in the few weeks so must do good; Ben turns 2 and is having a little party, Blog Camp Bristol , Jacob turns 5 and is having a party, our 6th wedding anniversary and of course Britmums!!!!






My target is to be at least 6lbs lighter, hopefully more, in time for Britmums in 6 weeks.

See you next week xx

Weigh-in Week #15

Starting Weight - 12st 5lb

Current Weight - 11st 3.5lb - gain of 0.5lb

Total loss to date - 1st 1.5lbs

Starting Clothes Size 18/20

Current Clothes Size - 14/16, and in some tops even a 12!!!

Sunday, 3 May 2015

I`m Popping My Britmums Cherry!!

I have finally taken the plunge and booked my Britmums ticket!!! I don`t have a sponsor yet so I am still on the lookout; hubby doesn`t know I have put the ticket on the credit card....sssh don`t tell him!!!

This will be my first big blogging event and am a bit daunted at the scale that the event is going to be. I`m not that confident so will probably be the one sitting quietly, taking everything in. I`m travelling with a lovely group of local bloggers so am hoping that being with people I know will increase my confidence.

Saying that I am not going to waste this opportunity; I am going to use this event to learn as much as I possibly can, bettering myself, improving my writing techniques, increasing my blog following. I`m also really looking forward to put some faces to names and make some new blogging friendships.

A tradition when you are attending Britmums is to introduce yourself via `I`m Going to Britmums 2015` meme/linky, so here goes...

Name - Jeni
Blog - Poolemamma Blogs
TwitterID - @poolemamma
Height - 5ft 6ins...at least I think so, that`s what I have been putting on most things all my life!!
Hair - I`ve just had my air coloured for the first time in a year so a mixture of blonde, red and brown tones
Eyes - Blue

Me straight form the hairdressers with a new do,
I doubt I`ll be able to recreate this look again!!

Is this your first blogging conference? - Yes, this is my first main blogging event; I did got to a bloggers social meet up in Exeter last year which was great.

Are you attending both days? - I am!! I am due to work the Saturday but have managed to swap my shift for the Saturday before, which is our 6th wedding anniversary. Hubby doesn`t know yet!!

What are you most looking forward to at Britmums 2015? Everything...the sessions, the atmosphere, the social aspect. I am really looking forward to meeting everyone and putting some faces to the names we all know so well.

What are you wearing? Hmmm, not decided yet. I usually go for smart casual so most likely a pair of comfy three quarter jeans/chinos and a floaty top. The weather is a big deciding factor too, I hate being hot so layer up my tops so can take off a layer at a time if necessary.

Do you have any tips for to pass on to others who may not of been before? Nope, I`m a Britmums newbie, I`ll be able to answer this next year!!

So if you see me sitting quietly on my own, please pop over and say Hi!!

I’m going to BritMums Live

Saturday, 2 May 2015

Feeling Alone

I don`t normally write sentimental or deep posts on here as I think some things should be kept behind closed doors but for some reason I feel that I need to write this down and get it off my chest.

Recently I`ve been feeling really alone. Now I have never been one of those people that needs to be constantly surrounded by people and can count on one hand how many people I can call close friends.

Over the last few months I have come to WANT to have more friends and have come to realise that I`m am really lonely.

But why don`t I have more friends?? What is wrong with me?? Why don`t people want to be around me or my family?? Why do we keep getting `forgotten` about or `thought you were busy` when it comes to social events??? Ask me and find out, not assume.

I keep saying to myself that I don`t need loads of friends and that what I have in my family unit is enough but I feel sorry for my kids when they keep getting left out of events that all their friends have been to.

Yes I know I`m not the most confident person in the world, I may come across arrogant but I`m really just scared so keep quite and to myself.

One thing that I have always promised myself is to be true to myself and not become a different person just to be accepted. I see so many people being one person in front of others then completely different as soon as they turn their back.

My amazing family; Should I change or be happy with what I have??
Why should I try to be someone else just to fit into a new group and make new friends??

Should I ???

Should I fake a laugh, plaster a fake smile on my face and not be me???

I can only imagine how mentally draining it must be to put on a show all the time, having to keep up a pretence in front of people.

Anyway, sorry for the random post but I needed to rant!!! I have a feeling a few things will be changing in my life!!


Friday, 1 May 2015

Fab Food Friday #5

Welcome to the 5th week of Fab Food Friday #FFF.

In my previous post I was saying that I feel like I have hit a wall with my weight loss. I can`t seem to go below 11st 3lbs no matter what I do or eat.

Fab Food Friday`s was created to allow people on their Slimming World journey share their creations with the world and also grab some inspiration for new meal ideas.

Spam me with your gorgeous meal ideas. Maybe you have made a SP meal that is sooo tasty its hard to believe its on SP??

Maybe next week I`ll be showcasing your creation to the world???

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